The first step to being yourself no matter where you are is this: You must first be Okay with your mistakes. You must understand that it is God who judges your mistakes, not you. Understand this: You judge unfairly because of your super-narrow perspective without God's help. God judges fairly, justly, and with so much mercy it fools the wise in astonishment. You are left with no choice if you want the greatest results, but to trust God. :) God will use even your mistakes if you trust Him. So be at peace even in your mistakes. Be yourself and love being yourself. Find out what it is you like about yourself and then embrace even the things you disliked, because they are actually what makes you interesting, and God made you perfectly without any additives needed :) Don't add on, don't try to be more nice, more kind, more friendly, more flattering to others. Just be kind, be friendly, be yourself. :)
If you'd like to accept Jesus into your life today, pray this simple prayer of God's love and grace today: Lord Jesus, I thank you for dying for all my sin; now Lord I invite you into my heart. Come and be my everything today and forever. Forgive my sin as I make You and you alone Lord in my life. Amen. Now read the book of God's love in the Bible: The book of John chapters 1-21. God promises He will guide your life. Pray and ask God to bring the right people into your life. God will guide you to the right church full of people who love His words in the Bible. Our God is so faithful. God bless you today.