Sometimes we think we have a reason to speak harshly to our wives..Well there is no excuse. My advise to you is stop doing that NOW. Don't think that you can treat your wife harshly and then you will all of the sudden treat your children with respect. No, when you are not believing in and treating your wife well you will do this to your entire household as well. If you want to be a great father, you need to start practicing! Your wife should be your practice for how you will forgive your children. Yes, your baby can't drive to the side of the house and give you a six hundred dollar damage bill..but if you start treating your child the way you were treating your wife, with resentment, best believe that child will grow up to give you a bill much larger that you won't believe. Instead of not watching the way you behave now to your wife, invest in your children by treating your wife very well. Don't get angry with her. Love her with ALL your heart, praise her ESPECIALLY when it's hard to. That's what we are supposed to do to our God, ESPECIALLY when things are difficult to do so or say so, we are to PRAISE the LORD with ALL of our hearts!
Speak blessing over your life when you bless the Lord with all of your heart, mind, soul, and strength today! Bless the Lord! Bless your wife with your attitude and your words! Don't wait until you have children to be a kind pappa bear.., no, instead, show that kindness right now! Practice being kind to others and practice patience, not seeking to win every argument, keep the peace and be wise and gentle. Show kindness today. Bless your wife so that you and your family will have a healthy future.
If you'd like to accept Jesus into your life today, pray this simple prayer of God's love and grace today: Lord Jesus, I thank you for dying for all my sin; now Lord I invite you into my heart. Come and be my everything today and forever. Forgive my sin as I make You and you alone Lord in my life. Amen. Now read the book of God's love in the Bible: The book of John chapters 1-21. God promises He will guide your life. Pray and ask God to bring the right people into your life. God will guide you to the right church full of people who love His words in the Bible. Our God is so faithful. God bless you today.